Eartha Kitt, Gay Icon... Born On This Day- January 17th

Eartha Kitt had precisely the qualities that make a true gay icon: a history of anguish, abandonment & alienation, mixed with a camp & sexually audacious stage act with the necessary elements are artifice & aggrandizement.

Born 85 years ago, into severe poverty in the rural South, Kitt's beginning appeared as if life was stacked against her. Enduring prejudice from blacks & whites due to her mixed heritage skin color, Kitt never knew her father & was abandoned by her mother at an early age in favor of her darker siblings. Raised by another family that barely noticed her, she grew up with low self-esteem, but the drive to surpass her surroundings & achieve greatness.

Kitt found her way to NYC & became a member of the prestigious Katherine Dunham Dance Company. Her solo spot captured the attention of Orson Welles, who cast her in his Faustus, falling in love with her & proclaiming: "Eartha Kitt is most exciting woman in the world." Kitt blossomed on Broadway in New Faces of 1952 & in the 1960s she worked as her most famous TV persona of Cat Woman on Batman. She was a recording artists with hits: C'est Si Bon, Santa Baby, Monotonous, I Want to be Evil, & Champagne Tastes. It would be her Gay club hit Where is My Man, that would be her only certified gold record, and last month the ringtone of Santa Baby was went certified gold.

I remember my parents & I fighting at the dinner table in 1968, after Kitt expressed her views on the Vietnam War to Lady Bird Johnson, at a White House luncheon. Kitt: "You send the best of this country off to be shot & maimed. No wonder the kids rebel & take pot. The children of America are not rebelling for no reason. They are not hippies for no reason at all. They are rebelling against something. There are so many things burning the people of this country, particularly mothers. They feel they are going to raise sons,& I know what it’s like, & you have children of your own, Mrs. Johnson…we raise children & send them to war.”

Her remarks brought the First Lady to tears. The public reaction to Kitt's statements was extreme, & the media exploited Ms. Kitt's opinions. For the next decade she blacklisted in the United States. Her career continued to soar in Europe & Asia, during her exile, until 1976, when Jimmy Carter invited her back to the USA.

Among her life achievements, Kitt earned nominations for 2 Tony Awards, 2 Grammy Awards & won 5 Emmy Awards for her work on the TV series- Emperor's New School.


Kitt was proud of the label-Gay Icon. Kitt: "After my blacklisting, it was the Gay community that welcomed me back with open arms." She publicly supported same-sex marriage, which she believed to be a civil right. Kitt:"I support gay marriage because we're asking for the same thing. If I have a partner & something happens to me, I want that partner to enjoy the benefits of what we have reaped together. It's a civil-rights thing, isn't it?" Kitt appeared at many GLBT fundraisers & spent a great deal of her time dedicating herself to working with the Gay Men's Health Crisis & other AIDS charities.

Kitt continued to work on stage & screen until the end of her life. In the aughts she returned to Broadway in the The Wild Party opposite Mandy Patinkin & Toni Collette, starred as the Fairy Godmother in Cinderella at Linoln Center, & she replaced Chita Rivera in Nine.

Kitt was a fighter & a force. Describing her own life in 6 words: "rejected, ejected, dejected, used, accused, & abused". Regret was never mentioned. Kitt died from colon cancer on Christmas Day 2008 at her Connecticut, home surrounded by her daughter- Kitt & her grandchildren.

The Joker's Wild... Born On This Day, Cesar Romero!

From everything I have read, Cesar Julio Romero, Jr. was the consumate professional, brimming with talent, & a total nice guy… one of the good ones. Famous as a "confirmed bachelor," the "Latin from Manhattan" was Hollywood's most popular date. After a hard day at the studio, he always dove into the nightlife & the social world. There was rarely a film or gallery where the debonair, dramatically dressed man was not seen with a famous star on his arm: Joan Crawford, Linda Darnell, Barbara Stanwyck, Lucille Ball, Ann Sheridan, Jane Wyman, or Ginger Rogers. It was reported that Romero's closets held 30 tuxedos, 200 sport coats, & 500 suits. Romero rarely spent an evening in his Brentwood home, which he shared with his sister Maria. It was well known in Hollywood that the likable Romero was gay, and it was well assumed that after he dropped off his beautiful date, he would end up in the arms of long time lover-Tyrone Power.


Cesar Romero had supporting roles in nearly 100 films from the 1930s-1980s, musicals, period pieces, westerns, noir, comedy, he did it all.

In 1953, Romero starred in a 39-episode TV serial, Passport To Danger, & he continued to do guest spots on TV shows: I Love Lucy & the special Lucy Takes A Cruise To Havana, Zorro, 77 Sunset Strip, Fantasy Island, & Murder She Wrote.

Romero achieved his greatest fame in 1966 as The Joker in the highly successful TV series Batman & repeated the role in the 1966 movie, making him the first film Joker, before Nicholson, & like heath Ledger, he was robbed of an Oscar.

Romero danced with Carmen Miranda on a live broadcast of The Milton Berle Show. Wearing glittering sequins & colorful fruit, Miranda forgot her panties while changing between acts, & when Cesar twirled her above his head, she exposed herself to millions of TV viewers across the country. Talk about your wardrobe malfunctions!

Enduringly popular, the wealthy Romero continued to work steadily through the 1950s, 1960s, 1970s, & beyond.

Romero had a great sense of humor. Once, after taping a talk show featuring him & a beauty queen, the technician began removing their clip-on microphones, Romero quipped: "You can do the young lady first. The young queen before the old queen."

In 1968, Romero was named one of the “most beautiful men in the world" by T.V. Guide Magazine with "hair the color of stainless steel," an "alert, erect posture," & "charm to spare." Romero continued to appear in films almost yearly throughout the 1970's and 1980's. In 1985, the still handsome & popular man actor was cast as Jane Wyman's love interest on the popular Falcon Crest.

Romero: "Those beautiful actresses all had individuality & a flair for glamour…years ago the gals were real stars. There was an excitement to the business then."

The elegant Cesar Romero, loved & adored by his friends & fans, died of complications from a blood clot on New Year's Day, 1994.